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    11/26/2009

    The Old-Fashioned Thanksgiving…

     

    (Edgar Albert Guest, 1881-1959)

    It may be I am getting old and like too much to dwell
    Upon the days of bygone years, the days I loved so well;
    But thinking of them now I wish somehow that I could know
    A simple old Thanksgiving Day, like those of long ago,
    When all the family gathered round a table richly spread,
    With little Jamie at the foot and grandpa at the head,
    The youngest of us all to greet the oldest with a smile,
    With mother running in and out and laughing all the while.
    It may be I'm old-fashioned, but it seems to me to-day
    We're too much bent on having fun to take the time to pray;
    Each little family grows up with fashions of its own;
    It lives within a world itself and wants to be alone.
    It has its special pleasures, its circle, too, of friends;
    There are no get-together days; each one his journey wends,
    Pursuing what he likes the best in his particular way,
    Letting the others do the same upon Thanksgiving Day.
    I like the olden way the best, when relatives were glad
    To meet the way they used to do when I was but a lad;
    The old home was a rendezvous for all our kith and kin,
    And whether living far or near they all came trooping in
    With shouts of "Hello, daddy!" as they fairly stormed the place
    And made a rush for mother, who would stop to wipe her face
    Upon her gingham apron before she kissed them all,
    Hugging them proudly to her breast, the grownups and the small.
    Then laughter rang throughout the home, and, Oh, the jokes they told;
    From Boston, Frank brought new ones, but father sprang the old;
    All afternoon we chatted, telling what we hoped to do,
    The struggles we were making and the hardships we'd gone through;
    We gathered round the fireside. How fast the hours would fly--
    It seemed before we'd settled down 'twas time to say good-bye.
    Those were the glad Thanksgivings, the old-time families knew
    When relatives could still be friends and every heart was true.

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    On this Thanksgiving day I am giving thanks to God for all of the many blessings I have received, and for my family and my friends. A special thanks to God for the friends I have met on spaces.  I have enjoyed getting to know you all and you have a special place in my heart.

    Beth Red heart

    9/21/2009

    Remembering Jim today…

    on his birthday September 21, 2009. 

    Jim

    This is how Jim looked when I first met him in July of 1955.  I will always miss him but I am so thankful that he isn’t suffering anymore.

    I am celebrating Jim’s birthday today by going to the dentist for a checkup.  Then afterwards I will go to the health department for my flu shot.  Then if it is not raining I will take some flowers to the cemetery.

    Yesterday was a rainy cool day that didn’t get above  65 all day.  Partly sunny and upper 70s for today which sounds pretty nice.  I hope this is a good week for us all.

    HugsRed heart

    Beth

    7/27/2009

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY RAE

    Today is my sister Rae's birthday.  She is very special to me and I love her dearly.
     
    Special Thoughts for You on Your Birthday
    ~by Emily Matthews~
     
    Those who belong to the same family circle
     
    share memories of long ago days.
     
    The bond that unites them is filled with such caring
     
    in so many wonderful ways. 
     
    Their time spent together
     
    creates such a closeness,
     
    a kinship that's lasting and true,
     
    They share understanding unlike any other
     
    that means so much all their lives through. 
     
    They're there for each other through good times and bad times,
     
    and nothing can keep them apart.
     
    Those who belong to the same family circle
     
    are always together in heart.
     
    I couldn't help it Rae.  I love this picture of you when you were a little girl.  You are still thumbing your nose at the bad guys in this world.  I hope this is a happy day for you.
    Lots of love from your 22 month older sis.
    Red heart
     
    7/13/2009

    This will make you cry...

    From a client in Georgia, what CNN should have been playing instead of all that MJ stuff.  A solider came home to Georgia for burial and a car escorting the body took video in each small town they rolled through on the 35 mile journey. It is rather long and if the accompanying  music doesn't make you cry, nothing will. 

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    Killed in action the week before, the body of Staff Sergeant First Class John C. Beale was returned to Falcon Field in Peachtree City Georgia , just south of Atlanta , on June 11, 2009. The Henry County Police Department escorted the procession to the funeral home in McDonough Georgia . A simple notice in local papers indicated the road route to be taken and the approximate time.
     
    Nowadays one can be led to believe that America no longer respects Honor and no longer honors sacrifice outside the military. Be it known that there are many places in this land where people still recognize the courage and impact of total self-sacrifice. Georgia remains one of those graceful places.

    The link below is a short travelogue of that day's remarkable and painful journey. But only watch this if you wish to have some of your faith in people restored.

    http://blip.tv/play/AYGJ5h6YgmE
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    This was sent to me in an email from my sister.  Please do watch the video.  It will make you proud to be an American.  Sadly we have lost several young men and women in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan in my area.  Each fallen hero has received  this same kind of 'welcome home.' 
     
    Red roseRed heart for our fallen heroes...
     
    7/7/2009

    Happy Birthday Carol...

    and many more.  I hope today is a happy day for you.  Today is our good friend Carol's birthday.  Stop by her space to tell her hi and wish her a happy birthday!  
     
    I am a happy camper today.  Our local CBS station showed Y & R at 10 instead of 11 so I don't have to watch soapnet tonight.  That is good because there are 3 back to back NCIS on the USA network tonight.  Can't wait.
     
    It is hot and humid here today.  I had planned to mess around outside but it is just too darn hot for that.  As for doing anything important, nah, I cleaned over the weekend and that is enough important stuff to last me for a while.  I did a couple loads of laundry this morning and so I am all caught up for the week. 
     
     I also stopped by my local IGA for their specials as this is senior day.  Gotta go for the discounts whenever I can get them.  Gas had gone up to $2.69 yesterday and today it is back down to $2.59.  It just seems to hop around.  Last week it was $2.52.  IGA had a coupon today 2 gallons of milk for $3.00.  I had to pass on that because 2 gallons of milk would last me a month and by then it would be sour.
     
    As you can tell by my blabbing  on, I have nothing exciting to report and I am glad for that.
     
    Red heart  
    6/21/2009

    Happy Father's Day in my own words...

    Daddy, I was the one of your kids most outspoken

    You called me Boogie,I smiled at that affectionate token.

    I didn't smile when you spanked my hind end and I'd run

    For something one of the other kids had done.

    Daddy, you worked  hard, and I wish I had known,

    I didn't appreciate you  till I had children of my own.

    I miss you Daddy and I am sending a hug up to you.

    I'd like very much if you would tell Mom I miss her too.

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    Jim, you were  the very best dad to our children.

    I could always count on you and I appreciated it so much.

    I couldn't think of a way to say this that would rhyme,

    So I will just say "Happy Fathers' Day"

    Sending love and hugs up to you from the kids and me.

    Hugs,

    Beth

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    I am definitely not a poet, so please don't laugh at my efforts.  It's ok to smile though.  Smile  I salute all of the father's in the world who are playing an active part in their children's lives.

    5/25/2009

    A Memorial Day Prayer

    "Those Honored Dead"

    "Why do you fly the flag today?"

    My Grandson wants to know.

    I fly it for the graveyards

    Where the countless crosses grow.

    I fly the flag for children

    Whose fathers are a name.

    A half-remembered memory

    of a face within a frame.

    I fly it for the families

    of sons and daughters lost.

    They know the price of liberty

    How terrible the cost!

    I fly the flag for veterans

    who lost their youth in blood.

    And saw their comrades slaughtered

    in the carnage and the mud.

    I fly it for the ones who marched

    In cadence off to war

    To close their eyes forever

    Upon some foreign shore.

    I fly the flag for grief poured out

    Upon a granite wall.

    The laying-on of hands that heals

    The scars within us all.

    I fly it for the sound of Taps---

    That melancholy tune

    That lays to rest those honored dead

    Who always die too soon.

    - Copyright 1994 Marion G. Mahoney

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    Dear Heavenly Father,

     

    As we remember those who have made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom, we think of how they have followed in the footsteps of your son, our Savior, Jesus Christ. Please hold our service men and women in your strong arms. Cover them with your sheltering grace and presence as they stand in the gap for our protection.

     

    We also remember the families of our troops, and ask for your unique blessings to fill their homes and your peace, provision and strength to fill their lives.

     

    May the members of our armed forces be filled with courage to face each day and may they trust in the Lord's mighty power to accomplish each task. Let our military brothers and sisters feel our love and support.

     

    In the name of Jesus. Amen.
     
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    Remembering the brave men and women who gave their lives so that we might be safe; and remembering my Jim and my brothers and brother-in-law who unselfishly served in the militay.  I am grateful to the men and women who are defending our country today here in America and on foreign soil.  May God bless them all.
     
    Red heart  Beth Marie
     
     
    5/23/2009

    A Memorial Day Tribute for my Brother...

    On Monday, Memorial Day my brother will be among those honored at the Memorial Day ceremony.  He recently had his name added to the Veteran's Memorial at O'Fallon Illinois where he lives with his wife Karen.  Below is a picture taken of him by the stone that has his name added to it.  I have added this picture to the Veteran's Memorial pictures posted in the photos on my main page.  He is retired from the United States Air Force.
     
    Isn't that a neat shirt he has on.  Proud of ya bro!!
     
    Also fitting for this Memorial Day weekend, my poppies are in full bloom.
     
     
    I hope you are all having a great weekend.  On Monday the church is having a chicken/pork bbq and I will be eating with my next door neighbors.  They are furnishing the meal and I am to furnish the dessert which is going to be coconut cream pie.  I will make that tomorrow.
     
    Red heart  Beth Marie
     
    5/22/2009

    Friday...

    The Ballad of the Green Berets
    SSGT Barry Sadler
     
    Fighting soldiers from the sky
    fearless men who jump and die
    men who mean just what they say
    the brave men of the Green Beret
    Silver wings upon their chest
    these are men, Americas best
    one hundred men will test today but
    only three win the Green Beret
    Trained to live off natures land
    trained in combat hand to hand
    men who fight by night and day
    courage take from the Green Beret

    (Chorus)
    Silver wings upon their chest
    these are men Americas best
    one hundred men will test today
    but only three win the Green Beret

    Back at home a young wife waits
    her Green Beret has met his fate
    he has died for those oppressed
    leaving her this last request
    put silver wings on my sons chest
    make him one of Americas best
    he'll be a man they'll test one day
    have him win the Green Beret
     
    If you would like to hear this song, I have it playing on my main page through Monday.
     
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    It is going to be hot here again today.  It is in the mid 80 already.  I had to turn the AC on last night and I will be turning it on again in a little while.
     
    I have been to workout and to the cemetery to put flowers on my husband's grave.  I was very sad to see the flowers I had put on there a few months ago were removed.  The American Legion marker was there for the flag which will be placed on the veteran's graves tomorrow.  I did notice that my husband's nephew's grave had beer bottles and tiny ceramic frogs placed on the base of the stone.  Tim was the same age as my daughter and he died of complications of diabetes at age 41.  One of his old girlfriends keeps the minature beer bottles fresh on his grave.  That used to make Jim so mad he would take the bottles off and put them in the trash and in a few days more bottles were back on the grave.  Smile
     
    Enough of the sad stuff.  Below is a picture of me on the left with my daughter and Nita on the right with Tim when our babies were tiny.
     
     
    I am heading out now.  I hope you all have a wonderful weekend.
     
    Red heart  Beth Marie
    5/8/2009

    Another Spirit in the Sky

    I  can't believe that I am writing this post.  I just found out from many of you that Al passed away last night.    Al had such a big heart.  I chatted with him many times on IM.  All he wanted was for us all to be friends and love one another.  He hated it so when someone would say something bad about another person.  He took everything to heart personally.  That was his worst flaw, if you could call it a flaw, the fact that he couldn't bear to see one person hurt another.  And now that big heart of his has stopped beating and my heart is grieving now, for the second day over the loss of a dear space friend. 
     
    May you rest in peace dear friend as you are with the angels in the sky.
     
    Red heart  Beth Marie
     
     
    5/7/2009

    Spirit in the Sky...

    I was so very sad to read on Pat Rs  (luvlink) blog that she passed away last night.  Pat was a dear space friend to me and I am very saddened by her death.  On my page today I am playing Spirit in the Sky if you would like to listen. 
    Pat, I will miss you very much.  My deepest sympathy to her husband Zack and her children.
     
    Spirit in the Sky
     
    Norman Greenbaum
    When I die and they lay me to rest
    Gonna go to the place that's the best
    When I lay me down to die
    Goin' up to the spirit in the sky
    Goin' up to the spirit in the sky
    That's where I'm gonna go when I die
    When I die and they lay me to rest
    Gonna go to the place that's the best

    Prepare yourself you know it's a must
    Gotta have a friend in Jesus
    So you know that when you die
    He's gonna recommend you
    To the spirit in the sky
    Gonna recommend you
    To the spirit in the sky
    That's where you're gonna go when you die
    When you die and they lay you to rest
    You're gonna go to the place that's the best

    Never been a sinner I never sinned
    I got a friend in Jesus
    So you know that when I die
    He's gonna set me up with
    The spirit in the sky
    Oh set me up with the spirit in the sky
    That's where I'm gonna go when I die
    When I die and they lay me to rest
    I'm gonna go to the place that's the best
    Go to the place that's the best.
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    I am just back from having breakfast with my son.  I received a lovely box of the chocolates that are hand made close to where he lives.  It was beautifully wrapped but I tore it open as soon as I got home. 
     
    More about my trip tomorrow.  This is a sad day for me.  Over the years we get to know our blogging friends and losing one of them is like losing a part of our family.
     
    Red heart  Beth Marie
    4/8/2009

    Happy Birthday

    Happy birthday to my son today.  He was born at 1:29 AM and darned if I didn't wake up this morning at about that time.
    Happy birthday to my other Jim.  I hope today is a good one for you.  Love, Mom
     
    I made workout this morning and then on to the big city.  If today is any indication there are a lot of folks going somewhere for Easter.  The cars were practically bumper to bumper.  I saw only one semi and that was as I was coming home heading north.  There was not one Fuzz on the road.  What was truly amazing to me was that this huge store (Meijer) was practically empty.  I shopped and didn't have to wait in the line to check out.  Amazing.  I could have bought some ice cream.  Sarcastic  Usually I am half an hour getting out of the checkout lane.  Also I noticed something brand new from when I was there last week.  Meijer now has a self checkout lane that says no limit on the number of items you are checking out.  Boing...someone just lost a job.
     
    I had quite a time with my closet cleaning yesterday.  First, I got a splinter in my finger and I had to dig that out.  Then one of the closet doors went off the track and I had to call my neighbor.  He came over and fixed it right away.  I have a pie in the oven right now to repay him.  It is peach because after Ramblin mentioned peach pie I got hungry for some.  I left a tiny bit of filling in the pan and that satisfied me momentarily.
     
    Anyway, after all of my running I am not doing any cleaning today.  I am just sitting here and doing nothing the rest of the day.  I do hope my neighbor gets home from work before I am tempted to have a piece of that pie.
     
    Be happy!!
     
    Beth Marie
    11/11/2008

    Some Gave All



    Billy Ray Cyrus/Cindy Cyrus)

    I knew a man called him Sandy Kane
    Few folks even knew his name
    But a hero was he
    Left a boy, came back a man
    Still many just don't understand
    About the reasons we are free

    I can't forget the look in his eyes
    Or the tears he cries
    As he said these words to me

    All gave some and some gave all
    And some stood through for the red, white and blue
    And some had to fall
    And if you ever think of me
    Think of all your liberties and recall
    Some gave all

    Now Sandy Kane is no longer here
    But his words are oh so clear
    As they echo through out our land
    For all his friends who gave us all
    Who stood the ground and took the fall
    To help their fellow man

    Love your country and live with pride
    And don't forget those who died America can't you see

    All gave some and some gave all
    And some stood through for the red, white and blue
    And some had to fall
    And if you ever think of me
    Think of all your liberties and recall
    Some gave all

    And if you ever think of me
    Think of all your liberties and recall, yes recall
    Some gave all

    Some gave all
     
    *****I have this song playing on my main page if you would like to listen to it.  Don't forget, today we are honoring our fallen heroes who died protecting our country.  May God Bless them all.
    7/4/2008

    The 4th of July 2008



     

     

     

    I want to wish each of you a safe happy holiday.  May God Bless you all!

    Love

    Beth


     

    7/3/2008

    Thursday...

    I'm Proud To Be An American

    Written By Lee Greenwood

    If tomorrow all the things were gone I'd worked for all my life,

    And I had to start again with just my children and my wife,

    I'd thank my lucky stars to be living here today,

    'Cause the flag still stands for freedom and they can't take that away.

    I'm proud to be an American where at least I know I'm free,

    And I won't forget the men who died who gave that right to me,

    And I gladly stand up next to you and defend her still today, '

    Cause there ain't no doubt I love this land God Bless the U.S.A.

    From the lakes of Minnesota to the hills of Tennessee,

    Across the plains of Texas from sea to shining sea.

    From Detroit down to Houston and New York to L.A., 

    There's pride in every American heart and it's time we stand and say:

    I'm proud to be an American where at least I know I'm free,

    And I won't forget the men who died who gave that right to me,

    And I gladly stand up next to you and defend her still today, '

    Cause there ain't no doubt I love this land God Bless the U.S.A.

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    Just one  more day until Independence Day.  I hope you all have plans that will be fun for you.  Just don't forget the true meaning of this day.

    My son called last night wanting me to visit him.  I am not going to get back on the interstate until after the holiday.  I am seriously considering taking the back roads to the big city until the road construction is done.  lol  I feel fortunate to have made it home safely on Tuesday.

    Last night I went to Cheddars with my friends Anne and Bill.  I have chicken tenders left over for lunch today.  No cooking required.  I have never had chicken tenders as good as Cheddars makes.

    No great plans for today.  If it is sunny I think I will paint the back porch steps.  The ice melt from last winter really did a number on them.

    Stay safe and be happy!!

     

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    11/13/2007

    Movie theater burning as I am typing this..

     

    I live just 3  blocks from where the fire is burning right now.

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    My beauty shop is just two doors down from where this is burning.

    ******UPDATE, the building was totally destroyed.  There were 3 apartments above.  The bookstore next door was destroyed.  Smoke and water damage to the rest of the block.

    11/12/2007

    Happy Birthday Bill - today Nov 12, 2007

     

    Hey, little bro, today is your birthday.  I know you are 8 years younger than me but I swear you look 8 years older.  Hey, don't hit me.  I was only kidding.

    I remember the day you were born.  Ebby, Rae and I were sent next door while the monumental event occurred.  Yep, in the caveman days all births took place at home.  ;o)  As you became older you were somewhat (well, really a whole lot) of a pain in the behind.  Rae and I had to take care of you and we didn't like that one bit.  That was the reason we dumped you out of your carriage as often as we could get by with it.  Mom didn't like that and we were punished accordingly.

    We have all grown older now (ancient actually) and I have kind of decided I like you a little (oh what the heck, I love you).

    Celebrate wisely today with your new wife, Karen.  I know she will take care of you and will not dump you out of your carriage.

    Love you lots little bro.  Happy Birthday and many more!!

    lvb

    11/11/2007

    REMEMBERING OUR VETERANS ON VETERAN'S DAY

    Oct 19 & 20 2007 045 While my sister and I were attending our brother's wedding close to St. Louis a few weeks ago we visited a Veterans Memorial in O'Fallon.  A lovely lady (a friend of the bride) that we met personally was largely responsible for establishing this memorial.  It honors not only the deceased veterans but also the living ones in the local area.  My battery in my cameral died before I could get the Air Force marker.  I really wanted it too as two of my brothers are retired Air Force Veterans.  My middle brother was a Navy veteran.  My husband served in the Army and was a Korean War Vet.

     

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    Oct 19 & 20 2007 047 Beyond all of the markers there is a beautiful pond with benches around for seating.

    My heartfelt prayer of thanks for the sacrifices our veterans are making to serve our country.  No matter what our view of the war is (and by now I think you all know mine) we must love and honor our veterans and keep them in our prayers.

    11/5/2007

    Remembering Ebby on her birthday...

     

    Today, November 5, 2007, would have been my sister Mary Evelyn's  birthday.

    I will always remember her and she will always be in my heart.

     

    Beth and Ebby My sister Ebby is on the right.  Circa 1951.